It’s common among some guys to always distance themselves from girls after intimacy.
Some guys don’t always have intentions of a long-term relationship and they pretend to be in Love with the girl.
This action is labeled very bad and guys should stop the act. You don’t know when you get to meet that someone who’s supposed to love you unconditionally.
The reason I think why most guys distance themselves after intimacy is simply because they don’t want to attach any emotions.
Girls need to be watchful and careful with most guys they share intimate moments with. A guy can get under your skin just so he can use and dump you at the end of ecstasy.
Some would just call it a one-night stand and after that, they find another route faraway from you. By then you must have started getting fond of them.
Signs a guy will eventually distance himself from you after intimacy.
- He never introduces you to his friends.
A guy who just wants to get you won’t want you to meet any of his close relatives, friends, or something that will still bring the two of you together.
- He’s always in a hurry to discharge you.
Another clear sign that would prove he’s just in to get you laid is that when you two are having a moment, his mind is never with you.
He tries to always talk hastily with you so that you two can go your separate ways.
- He doesn’t care about anything that concerns you.
Whether he sees you with another guy in an improper position, he never shows any sign of jealousy. You need to understand that a guy who truly loves you wouldn’t want to share you with some other guy.
If he does not act jealous or territorial when he sees you with different guys, it’s a sign he will distance himself after having intimacy with you.
Do girls distance themselves after intimacy?
Yes, a lot of girls these days also distance themselves from guys after intimacy.
I will share my story with you, it’s something that happened recently. I understand that this might be very personal but just to prove a point I will lay down every detail.
It came as a surprise to me when a girl I was dating for a few days called it off after we knacked.
She bluntly sent me a text that night asking me to stay away from her.
In her words, she said, ” Hey sorry to say this but I don’t think this relationship can continue, I have a serious boyfriend whom I want to work things out with”.
I am not saying that working things out with the boyfriend is a bad idea, but why after intimacy.
It’s not only guys who distance themselves after intimacy, even the girls do the same.