Today I will be discussing one of the few ways to toast a girl face to face in Nigeria without feeling shy.

The words “toasting a girl” are mostly used by Nigerians which means to woo a girl.

I understand that most people after planning to approach a girl they like, lose the guts to go on.

How to toast a girl face to face

Using myself for instance, when I was a bit younger, I had a crush whom I wanted to “toast” but I wasn’t courageous enough to tell her how I felt.

Not having the guts to toast a girl face to face is pure natural. This happens when it has to do with someone you don’t have a close friendship with.

So today, I will be giving you some hints on how to toast a girl face to face.
Apply this suggestion and see how she falls helplessly in love with you.

How do I toast a girl face to face without feeling shy?

1. Make Friends With Her First.

You see, it is easy to “toast” a girl whom you are already friends with because by then you have established that bond already.

Here, many people (guys) make mistakes by putting themselves on the friend-zone list of the girl.

To avoid putting yourself on her friend zone list, while you are being friends with her, tell her your intentions are based on a romantic relationship.

Don’t let her assume you want her just a friend because when you decide to toast her whether face to face or via messages it won’t work.

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Let her know how you feel even when you two are having that unique friendship.
Once in a while tell her you really like her.

After few weeks by then you must have become close, you can then toast her face to face without feeling shy.

2. Using Text Message To Toast Her.

Although this might not be like toasting her face to face or wooing her. at least it is better than stammering in front of her.

What you need to understand is that not every girl that her that time to wait while you search for words to say.

And most times it can be very embarrassing when you approach a girl face to face and you can’t boldly express how you feel.

How to toast a girl face to face

To avoid all that, the best option is to tell her how you feel via text and also acknowledge the fact that you are a shy type.

After telling her how you feel via text, just to make sure she sees the love burning in your eyes, arrange somewhere quiet where you two can meet.

How do i toast a girl face to face in Nigeria?

Tell her you to want to meet in private but just the two of you. If she’s ok with it she can meet you in a restaurant or somewhere she feels safe.

Make sure it’s just the two of you or let her come with someone but the third person can seat separately.

3. Write down what you want to say so that you won’t forget.

Although is option is quite risky because you might forget whatever you wrote the moment you set your eyes on her.

Nevertheless, since you have pure intentions there’s no need to fear. Just approach her even if you don’t know what to say, look her in the eyes and tell her she’s beautiful.

Tell her how she has changed your way of life ever since you set your eyes on her.
Make her understand that you are positively attracted to her.

To toast a girl face to face for the first time can be quite challenging.
You need to take that chance you have even if you feel you don’t know the right words to say.

She must have heard a thousand of those words, but saying it with all sincerity will surely get you a ticket to her heart.

Most people feel girls are complicated, in some cases, it might be true. If you know the right words to use when you’re with her, you don’t need to fear.

4. Work on your inferiority complex.

One of the many reasons why most guys can’t toast a girl face to face is inferiority complex.

The moment you feel inferior to a girl especially if she’s from a well-to-do family or if she’s rich, you lose the guts to say anything.

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It doesn’t matter what her statue in the outside world is, as long as what you feel for her is genuine, just say your mind.

They are just a few girls who will walk up to a guy and express their feelings. The same girl you are scared to toast might be in love with you but she’s just waiting for you to face her.


To toast a girl face to face without feeling shy, you need to set aside shyness. Most times you won’t know what to say but just go with the flow.

As I said, try to be friends with her so that talking to her won’t be an issue. Also, try to be friends with her friends so that you can get to know what and what she likes and how to face her.