Sleeping With A Married Man
Have you ever wondered if sleeping with a married man makes you a bad person? Or do you not care about what people think?
To be honest, it is not advisable for a young lady, whether married or unmarried, to engage in a relationship with a married man to whom she is not married. The only exception is if the man is your husband; otherwise, it’s considered bad, unreasonable, and immoral.
As a woman, try to put yourself in the shoes of the man’s wife or imagine how you’d feel if someone your age were having an affair with your father. The emotions you’d experience, like feeling disoriented, hurt, and angry, should deter you from pursuing such a relationship.
Believe me, it’s never wise to get involved in such affairs, and if you’re currently in one, I strongly advise you to end it. Many married men pursue extramarital relationships without any consideration for the consequences. They may shower you with gifts and money, making you feel like a princess, but in the end, they often abandon you.
Furthermore, many of these men neglect their families while chasing after other women, often university students. However, if you dig deeper, you’ll discover that their own children are lacking the care they deserve.
Here are six dangers associated with sleeping with a married man:
1. Engaging in a relationship with someone’s husband already casts you in a negative light.
2. There are other risks involved in such affairs, and I will discuss some of the disadvantages as you continue reading.
Please note that these dangers include but are not limited to the following:
1. Delaying your chances of meeting your future husband, as society generally views sleeping with a married man negatively.
2. Risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) due to the potential exposure to multiple partners.
3. The possibility of being humiliated by the man’s wife if the affair is discovered.
4. Bringing disgrace to yourself and your family if your actions become public knowledge. A good reputation is more valuable than riches.
5. The experience can alter your perception of men and make it difficult to trust them.
6. The realization that the married man is unlikely to leave his wife for you, leaving you with wasted time and emotional turmoil.
The disadvantages of sleeping with a married man:
1. A loss of self-confidence.
2. A lack of pride in how you make a living, making it difficult to recommend such actions to your loved ones.
3. Trust issues can creep into future relationships with men.
4. Constant self-judgment and guilt.
5. Insecurity in your future, both financially and health-wise.
The reasons why some girls engage in sleeping with married men can vary, but they often include peer pressure and a lack of financial support. It’s crucial to explore alternative ways to improve your situation and maintain your integrity. Consider content writing, learning a trade, or exploring online opportunities to earn money legitimately.
Laziness can lead some individuals to make poor choices, so I encourage every young woman to invest in skills and education. This can open up various opportunities and prevent the need to resort to unhealthy relationships.
Benefits of sleeping with a married man
In what many see as the benefits of sleeping with a married man, it might not totally be true. However, here are some of them:
1. Financial benefits: The man would provide you with all the financial assistance you need as long as you keep warming his bed.
2. Free Gifts: As long as you you’re always at the other end to come quench his desire, he would spoil you with gifts items. More often, the ones that are tagged “sugar zaddy” spend hugely on the girls they sleep with. Gifts items like latest iPhones, designers bags and other accessories. Well, there’s always a catch in everything.
3. Money and Paid Trips On Vacation: In most cases, this is actually one of the reasons a lot of girls have affairs with married men. For starters, they get paid trips to any part of the world or country. Some girls have taken “sleeping with married men” as a full time job. Instead of getting a job, they just jump from one married man to the other.
Rules for sleeping with a married man
Anyways, while at it, there are some basic rules for sleeping with a married man. This rules are not limited to the following:
1. Never catch feelings: Most times a lady gets so comfortable while having an affair with a married man and forget that the man isn’t his to keep. For pete sake he has a family and at the end of the day he will go back to his wife and children.
2. Never get pregnant as a means to blackmail him: So many ladies who choose this route have one sad story to tell. Some of this men can go to any length to make sure you don’t become a problem in his family. Keeping a pregnancy for him can endanger you in so many ways.
3. Don’t take pictures of the two of you together and post on social media: His wife can go to any length to find you as soon as she discovered you’re having an intimate relationship with her husband. Most ladies who made this mistake never lived testify.
Karma for sleeping with a married man
Like they said, karma is a b*tch. One’s good turn deserves another. As long as you sleep with people’s husbands, you’d definitely get married some day. Do unto others what you’d like if the same is done to you. Karma has a way of fighting for or against an individual.
Spiritual consequences of sleeping with a married man
Guilt would make you unhappy at a certain stage of your life. God forbid’s extramarital affairs or sleeping with married men. The bible condemned the act and forbid anyone from sleeping with a married person. Even the bible stated that “What God has joined together, let no man put asunder”.
How to stop sleeping with a married man
1. Be productive and Determined : If you lack finance, get a job, keep yourself busy with something you love. Make up your mind that you’d not get involved with married men. Stand your ground because the moment you make that decision, you’d get tempted to go back to your words.
2. Pray for God’s strength and guidance: Ask God to lead you and fill your heart with his words so that you won’t go back to that route anymore. Pray without season and you’d be fine.
3. Change your friends: Your friends play a vital role in the kind of life you live. If you hang around friends whose only source of income is from sleeping with married men, there’s a high chance you’d still join them after a little persuasion. To avoid unnecessary temptation, I will advise you change your circle of friends..